I don't know if you remember me discussing my son in law in January calling me fat behind his back in Jan. I believe that everything comes full circle and now the circle is hitting my son in law Mike in the butt! His daughter is getting married and told my daughter she wanted me to do her wedding flowers. I use to own a flower shop but sold it in May of 2004 for I was so sick with cancer etc.. and I am jumping with joy because I told Antoinette (daughter) that I was not doing her flowers for some one who hates me, and that they needed to find a skinny florist, that doesn't have piercings or tattoos and a florist who is not a belly dancer!

God should strike me dead for gleefully jumping with great joy for I haven't spoken to Mike since January. Told Antoinette I did not like the way he has treated me nor my granddaughters!

Just wanted to let you know that fat belly dancer's grand momma can be spiteful and ugly too! This will cost him thousands of dollars for I expected they didn't think I would charge for my labor and just the costs of the flowers.

Aren't I ugly? I haven't lost any weight either!
posted by:
cynthia
Texas
  • Re: Fat Momma is Coming Around Full Circle

    Fri, April 25, 2008 - 6:27 PM
    I think you did just the right thing Cynthia! With an inbred bully like that the only way to treat them is to keep punching until they apologize. You are an incredible woman with such strength, beauty and intelligence!! Life is too short to waste time on dillweeds like that.
  • Re: Fat Momma is Coming Around Full Circle

    Fri, April 25, 2008 - 8:25 PM
    I can be rather blunt and sometimes I am criticized for not being diplomatic. But dammit, sometimes I just don't want to turn the other cheek. Yes, I remember your story well and I am SO PROUD OF YOU!!!! Some folks just don't deserve sympathy. He's nothing but an ass-wipe and I hope you give him the royal flush!
  • Re: Fat Momma is Coming Around Full Circle

    Fri, May 9, 2008 - 5:50 PM
    Gee after treating you like that they expect you to behave like family. Well they finally got the lesson about life actually being fair... what goes around comes around. Bummer that a wedding is involved but maybe the girl(s) needs to get a wake up call anyway about marriage being a partnership.
  • Re: Fat Momma is Coming Around Full Circle

    Tue, May 20, 2008 - 6:41 PM
    Yes, I remember your story about him. It is unfortunate that your daughter is married to such a jerk. But I also don't think he is going to get the jest of your decline. His daughter is getting married and it is his daughter that wanted you to do the flowers. So unless she knows what's been going on between you two, she won't understand. Your daughter sounds like she is the one who is going to end up paying for the wedding and he won't give a damn.

    I don't blame you for declining....but unfortunately for jerks like him, he just won't get the message. But there will be another way in the future. Someday hopefully, for your daughter's sake, Mike will come around.....but don't hold your breath.

    I have a brother-in-law who is the biggest bigot I've ever met. He was recently in an accident and is now in a rehab center. I hope he has an Indian Doctor, an African American Nurse and a Middle Eastern Rehab Specialist! Maybe, just maybe, he might change his thoughts.

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