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How Fragile Our Egos Are

fayme — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 23:47:45 GMT

Sometimes it seems like we are working and working on building up our self esteem. Learning to dance is a piece of cake compared to learning to keep your self esteem in a good place.

Today I posted on Flickr some photos of my legs for 'Fishnet Friday'. Now I do get a lot of good comments on my photos, but somehow those don't really stick with me. But a woman on Flickr left a comment that was only 2 words. And those 2 words sent me into an emotional tailspin, once again making me wonder why we let such trivialities affect our fragile little egos. Those two words were 'Ugly Woman". I blocked her, but then after I got my head together I went to look at her photo stream. She has 1984 in her flickr name so I'm thinking she's about 25. Other than the headshot on her avatar, the rest of her photos are blocked from public view. In short, she can dish it out but can't take it. But enough about her.

I went to Youtube to listen to a vlog I had seen last year about fat belly dancers. Let me put the link here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpjA_eNPbqA .

Basically we all have days when we feel pretty and days when we feel ugly, but when all is said and done we still have to live our lives. I don't want to give up any of my dreams or my life because random people think I'm ugly. I wish I could just put this issue to bed once and for all and just love myself, like myself, like the way I look in the mirror, and just not care what others think. The haters are out there, have always been out there, and aren't going away anytime soon. And the more you put yourself out there in public, whether it's on youtube, or dancing at you local events, you will no doubt attract some of these haters that have nothing better to do than take a shot.

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Thank you and video...

heatherd — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 19:11:37 GMT

I just wanted to say thank you for the kind words on the pics that I posted in the album and say I just LOVE this community. I know I am much more of a "lurker" than most but, I draw a lot of inspiration from your stories and topics that you share. Here is the video of my Shamadan/Zill choreo, just thought I would share this time!!!

:) Heather

www.youtube.com/watch?v=YOySVrF75aI

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More reasons to join us at the Vegas Intensive! Our room rates have just dropped!

SamiraLV — Mon, 04 May 2009 22:35:48 GMT

Due to the crazy economic climate, the room rates at Palace Station dropped below our previously contracted rates. They have graciously agreed to match the low rates that they are currently offering.

We are very excited to announce that our new room rates are $20-$30 less a night! That's a substantial savings to our attendees and also makes it very easy for our locals to get rooms too.

Anyone that has already booked with our group Reservation ID "PCIBDI9", will automatically receive the new rates. If you happened to book your room outside of our block, please drop an email to Samira@bellydanceintensive.com so we can make sure that the event gets credit for your booking, although you will need to contact Palace Station directly to get our rates. Thanks so much!!

Samira Tu'Ala, Organizer
Las Vegas Bellydance Intensive & Festival
www.bellydanceintensive.com

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POSSIBLE TO ALTER THESE TYPE OF CHOLIS?

Palespider — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 22:59:48 GMT

hi,

i really wanna choli similar to the ones shown here: http://www.silkroadtribal.com/Vintage-Cholis_c_46.html
one of the longer ones

but well im a bigger girl and was wondering if any of you out there have been able to alter one to fit and if so was it difficult or would it be something a baby sewer can do on her own? Or does anyone know if they are possibly made in larger sizes?

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My new solos....be gentle :)

Phenomenal_Me — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 02:42:46 GMT

The first one was for a fundraiser during Pride week here in Albuquerque so it was a lot of fun African fusion and crowd participation :) The second performance was the next day during the big Pride celebration. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gu7bk072YBg

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNL7h5L_Da8

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Attend the Vegas Intensive -- FREE

SamiraLV — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 04:30:09 GMT

Hello everyone. (from Director of Volunteers, Reema)

I have been asked to be the Director of Volunteers for the LV Intensive 2009. I am looking for enthusiastic, fun loving people who want to take part in one of the biggest and best events Las Vegas has to offer. So many performers come to Las Vegas and witness first-hand the comradery and family like atmosphere at this event and a great part is owed to all the wonderful and generous volunteers we count on each year.

Additionally, volunteers get the added perks of taking some classes or attending the shows for free, and have fun. There are many opportunities to be involved in. We need people to be ushers,to help at the registration tables, and to check people into classes. We also need help running the festival stage, runners for vendors & performers, personal assistants to the teachers, etc. We'd enjoy having some "belly husbands" who want to help move, set up, and tear down equipment as well as dealing with technical aspects of the event. Please join our Bellydance Intensive family. If you are interested, please e-mail me direct at reema@bellydanceintensive.com.

Sincerely and Yours in Dance,

Reema, Director of Volunteers
reema@bellydanceintensive.com

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I want this skirt!

michele — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 05:22:32 GMT

www.youtube.com/watch

If you really look at it, it looks like individual layers with a ruffle on each! I'd love to know how to make this skirt for myself. Can anyone point me in the right direction?

safe journeys

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Awesome Costumer for godess and tall sizes

bellyroller2000 — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 21:28:46 GMT

Gypsy Red Tribal Threads is a great resource if your looking for costuming (tribal and otherwise) for the fuller figure. Joy Berrett (the creatress) is my mom and has been creating costumes for my curvy body for years. She has created costumes for Kashmir Desert Dance Company in SLC, Utah and Troupe Tribalation! of Eugene, Or.

Many people were also able to buy her wares at Tribal Fest this year during Sabine's Sword Workshop!

If you are interested in learning more here is her tribe http://tribes.tribe.net/gypsyredtribalthreads

And here is where you can see her current merchandise http://www.etsy.com/profile.php?user_id=7405967

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Would you like to perform at the Vegas Intensive?

SamiraLV — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 22:57:51 GMT

Do you want to be considered for our evening pro-shows at the Las Vegas Bellydance Intensive this year? (yes, big beautiful bellydancers are embraced here!!) This is your last chance...

Technically, today is the deadline, but because I failed to post a timely reminder announcement about the pertinent deadline, I have opted to extend the deadline for until April 15th. This is your last opportunity.

Visit the following link to read about requirements as well as to get the link to the online registration form. Click here for the Pro-show information page -- http://tinyurl.com/bs6tzg

This deadline is for the pro-shows only. There are still festival performance opportunities on Saturday and Sunday. The festival registration form is also on the website. Please visit our Festival information page for more details -- http://tinyurl.com/festivalinfo

Happy dancing,
Samira Tu'Ala, Organizer
www.bellydanceintensive.com
samira@bellydanceintensive.com

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feedback

Tue, 21 Apr 2009 17:21:15 GMT

I would love some input on my youtube clip and my website overall actually...

www.melodidance.com

The video is on the gallery page at the bottom. I hope you like and I am certainly open to ideas and critiques.

Thanks

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$25 Corset Belt Base "blowout" in my Etsy.com Shop!

Angelia_R — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 18:42:41 GMT

I have a pile of 4 panel corset belt "bases" in a variety of sizes and fabrics that need to go! they are $25 each, no matter the size. The smallest being 25-35" hip the largest being 55-65" hip.

Perfect for decorating yourself, or leaving "plain".

I made these for a vending event that didn't happen, and am working on clearing out old stock to make room for new!
There will be a few corset vests and such added soon.

http://www.creationsbyangelia.etsy.com

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HIP SKIRTS FOR SALE!!

Treasa — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 21:54:16 GMT

We are clearing out all of our Bellydance hip skirts.. I have :

L RED METALLIC http://people.tribe.net/87e7345a-b0d9-4c6c-a4be-13793db641c2/photos/d7d4832c-9d9a-4f6f-b765-2e1695f562f9
M BLUE http://people.tribe.net/87e7345a-b0d9-4c6c-a4be-13793db641c2/photos/32abb5bd-e013-4410-8386-6d3fcd9dbc70
M BURGUNDY http://people.tribe.net/87e7345a-b0d9-4c6c-a4be-13793db641c2/photos/e895ccd9-2bd8-40f1-a5a3-7fea4b49f2d1
M/L BURGUNDY
S BURGUNDY
S NAVY METALLIC http://people.tribe.net/87e7345a-b0d9-4c6c-a4be-13793db641c2/photos/04b16477-6079-4edb-98a4-799f0f592fff
S RED http://people.tribe.net/87e7345a-b0d9-4c6c-a4be-13793db641c2/photos/9ee86660-4713-4683-b522-f1890007eb74
XL BURGUNDY METALLIC http://people.tribe.net/87e7345a-b0d9-4c6c-a4be-13793db641c2/photos/67c5cdbf-b77e-4c18-bf24-f8e39e9655fe

THEY ARE $25 EACH EXCEPT THE XL WHICH IS $30. PHOTOS ARE IN MY PROFILE.

I AM ALSO SELLING A BURGUNDY CAFTAN WITH BEAUTIFUL METALLIC AND EMBROIDERY WORK FOR $25.
http://people.tribe.net/87e7345a-b0d9-4c6c-a4be-13793db641c2/photos/a3bb1e0e-0b80-483b-a1b5-23183d503cb3

THANKS FOR LOOKING!

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XL Caftan for Sale $25

Treasa — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 17:16:00 GMT

Beautiful XL red caftan with metallic design and stunning embroidery. Fits an American size 14 / 16 tops. See Pics in my profile. Never worn. I bought it on line and it was too small... PM me if you have any questions. Treasa

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youtube

Fri, 10 Apr 2009 14:20:29 GMT

I want to link a video on my website and it would seem that youtube would be a quick way to do that, but I am a little worried about putting myself out there to "Joe Public".

If I want it to work through my website then I have to make it public right? I just don't want to sift through all the 'hating' that can come along with having a public video on youtube. Is that just the risk you take?

I know that I can turn off the comments which might be the best solution, but I really do want feedback from people in our community...I just want it to be based on the dance (good or bad).

What experience have you had and can you offer any advice?

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Anyone here taken a Sharon Kihara workshop lately?

beledigrrl — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 04:40:29 GMT

Hi all, I'm headed to a Sharon Kihara/Amel Tafsout workshop this weekend. I was wondering if anyone here has done a workshop with the great Sharon and was willing to share how you felt about your experience there as a BBBD?

Disclaimer and maybe TMI--I'm not normally nervous about workshops/dancing in public. However, I've started a new medication in the past couple of months that really effected my endurance and energy level, and I'm just recently starting to feel 'like myself.' Guess I'm a little worried about being the only one needing to take breaks/sit out once in awhile!

Thanks in advance for any helpful feedback, 2 cents, etc.

Kristin

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New photo gallery on Bellydance Plus web site

ShiraDotNet — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 16:17:59 GMT

I have added a new dancer to the photo gallery section of the Bellydance Plus! web site at www.bellydanceplus.com . To see it, look for Faye Lange's name under the "Photos" section.

Faye embraces Tribal and Tribaret styles of dance costuming, and she represents the first Tribal-style dancer to be featured in my gallery. One of the things that's interesting about her gallery is that she shows how the overall look of a costume can be changed significantly by switching certain costume pieces and accessories.

For those of you not familiar with the Bellydance Plus! web site, it's a resource designed to help plus-sized women who are interested in belly dancing by providing them with costuming ideas, inspirational articles, and practical advice.

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How do you prepare for a solo improv?

Whitney — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 16:20:43 GMT

I've chosen the music, I've chosen the costume, but there isn't time to put together a choreographed routine (which I don't really like anyway, unless its for a group).

So, this is my first on stage solo.... how do you prepare?

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Plus size Black and blue bedleh 42-46 D/DD

Galena — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 22:22:07 GMT

This is one of my favorite bra and belt sets! It has amazing beading. You can see some of it up close in the slideshow on the front page or in my photo gallery. This costume has only been worn twice. The belt comes in two pieces so it is very adjustable. I have sewn them together on one side for faster costume changes but the stitching can easily be removed. Because of the amazing amount of interesting beads the bra and belt are fairly heavy. I am willing to part with it as either a full costume including the black and blue skirts that come with matching beaded veils or just the bra and belt. I will not sell the skirt and veils without the bra and belt. Nude body stocking NOT included however hooks are already in place for the use of one. $495 for the bra and belt only, $645 for the full costume

Costume Measurements:

Band Size - up to 46.5″ Cup width - 20.5″

Belt up to - 57″ Top of skirt - 27.5″ to 61″

Pictures can be found at http://www.galenadance.com/costumes-for-sale/

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Bellydance lessons on the MS Gulf Coast

Julie — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 16:17:02 GMT

Does anyone know if someone is teaching tribal (of any sort) on the Mississippi Gulf Coast area? Or if someone is teaching Caberet in the area? I have some friends in the area that are interested in taking lessons but don't know where to go.
Thanks!

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Plus Size (US 22/24) Madame Abla, Black Dress

Renee — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 14:59:28 GMT

Hello,

I'm posting to let everyone know I'm selling my Black Madame Abla, pictured in my profile. I've tried to post 3 times and keep getting kicked out.

I will post measurements next. Sorry for the choppy message. :P

Thanks,
Amy Renee
Director - Arabian Flair
Tallahassee, FL
www.ArabianFlair.com

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My vid

Debra — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 22:30:04 GMT

Hi ya'll.

I've been off the map for a while. I've had some injuries and had to do some mental and emotional housekeeping.
I wanted to share with you the video of my performance from last September.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JajkwdGLzug

My dearest husband says I need to work on my transitions ;)

~Debra

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Writing an article on costuming

andalee — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 15:08:39 GMT

Hi All,
I want to drive more traffic to my blog and social networking sites, so I am going to start a series of belly dance articles. I am by no means an expert on most things belly dance, but I have great news writing skills.

Anyway, my first article is about costuming. I would like you to send me your thoughts on trends in costuming. I want to hear from all types of dancers at any level. I am particularly interested in people who consider themselves experts in costume making, costume selling and costume buying. ;) At this point, I have enough answers from retailers and tribal fusion dancers. I would like more input from Cabaret/Oriental dancers.

I also have a list of interview questions. http://docs.google.com/View?docid=dpk76gc_17hpmp5jfj&pageview=1&hgd=1&hl=en
E-mail me the answers to andalee(dot)oriental at gmail(dot)com. Please don't post answers here. I'll also need to know how you want to be cited: name, location, web link.

The article will be posted on my blog, Web site, and myspace pages (and possibly on bhuz.com).

Thanks so much!
Andalee

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yoga pants for big gals

anever — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 01:05:31 GMT

what are you ladies liking in yoga pants these days?
someone on this tribe suggested the foldover yoga pants from victoria's secret about a year ago, and i loved them, but now they're about twice as much. i'm looking for something hopefully in the $20 range, without too much flair or flare, and ample booty coverage. any suggestions?

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selling belly dance costume in custom size

norhane — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 11:55:05 GMT

belly dance costume and bra and belt set we can make it with any size
check photo:
www.bellyshake.com/costumes/1.jpg
www.bellyshake.com/costumes/2.jpg
www.bellyshake.com/costumes/3.jpg
www.bellyshake.com/costumes/4.jpg
www.bellyshake.com/costumes/5.jpg
we have many other collection with good price

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Need to create a dance space

Blyth — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 17:48:29 GMT

Good Day everyone.

I hope that everyone had a lovely holiday filled with great memories. I have been asked recently by a couple of people to write an article on creating a dance space to practice with in their home. It would be really wonderful if some of you could share the spaces you have created for yourselves.

I really appreciate the help.

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Mega comment

irena — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 03:33:32 GMT

On the pictures that have been posted.... What a glorious buncha women. YOu are all beautiful!!!!!

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Photos Please

fayme — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 07:50:42 GMT

Would you believe we've only had 2 photos posted to the group in 2009? See if you can't spare a few moments to post photos to encourage other wonderful dancers to add theirs to the pool. I don't have any current photos or I'd post some myself. I haven't even put on a belly dance costume this year.

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Tribe picture

opramum — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 23:40:21 GMT

I'm loving the Tribe main picture. Lots of veil movement, beautiful colors. Rrawr!

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The VEGAS INTENSIVE is looking for big beautiful bellydancers!!

SamiraLV — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 18:50:23 GMT

Hello folks,

I'm the organizer of the Las Vegas Bellydance Intensive & Festival. I am looking for people who want to perform on the open stage and/or in our pro-show. I love big beautiful bellydancers (I happen to be one *wink*). It's important to me that my shows are diverse and we have dancers that represent the full spectrum of styles, shapes, sizes, ages, ethnicities, etc. Please consider sharing your talents in Las Vegas this September.

We are very excited to announce that registration for the festival portion of the Las Vegas Bellydance Intensive is now OPEN!! Please visit tinyurl.com/festivalinfo for more details.

Additionally, we are also accepting online "auditions" for the evening shows. To be considered for the evening shows, please visit tinyurl.com/auditioninfo for all the details.

***Please note that the festival portion of our event is different from our evening shows. Inclusion in the evening shows is by an online audition and is a different submission form. Inclusion in the festival is open to anyone and is on a first-come first-served basis. If you want to be considered for the evening shows, we recommend filling out a festival submission form as well so you can still dance at the event if you aren't chosen for the show.***

We are looking forward to your participation in the Las Vegas Bellydance Intensive this year.

Much Love & Happy Dancing,
Samira Tu'Ala, Organizer

www.bellydanceintensive.com
www.bellydanceintensive.mobi (for mobile phones)
702-296-9269

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An homage to Richard Lowe...

BlumeBauer — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 06:52:00 GMT

What a blast it was to dance at Richard Lowe's bday party. And it was so awesome to give him something back in return for all of the fabulous photos that he is always taking. He's an incredible guy and so very generous. Here's the link to our performance:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DAVDze4b2Vs

If you're interested in checking out Richard's photos, you can go here:
http://www.renaissancefaire.net/

Or here:
http://www.capturethegoddess.com

Enjoy!

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Blossom?

Lavender Dawn — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 05:07:32 GMT

Great prices but has anyone had any experiences?

www.bellydancercostume.info/index.php

Lav

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New photo gallery on Bellydance Plus web site!

ShiraDotNet — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 18:36:21 GMT

Last night I added a new photo gallery to the Bellydance Plus web site. It features Caroline Labrie, a dancer from Québec, Canada. She does Egyptian-style belly dance, so her photo gallery includes 1 page of costumes for Egyptian folkloric dance, and 2 pages of beads 'n' sequins.

To admire Caroline's fabulous costume collection go to:

www.bellydanceplus.com

and look under "Photos".

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First YouTube video

beledigrrl — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 15:59:08 GMT

Hi all, I thought I would share my first YouTube video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_FbGIGauwo

There are some technical difficulties at the beginning, so the dancing starts after about one minute!

Kristin

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Bella Leopard/Turquoise D/DD cup

shaynaz — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 07:32:44 GMT

I have worn it for pictures and 1, 5 minute, performance....Damn I needed to get more miles in this!! lol...

Bra is 43" D/DD cup straps are 21" and X in the back with front hook.

Skirt is 46" at the moment. originally it was 40", i took one of the armbands and added to the skirt so it would fit me. It can be taken off and set at the regular measurement of 40" the zipper is still there!. length of the skirt is 36".

also comes with head band and 1 arm band.

$750 plus $20 shipping priority mail flat rate box with insurance and delivery confirmation. WILL ALSO CONSIDER OFFERS

OPTIONAL....Extras that I am willing to sell you to go with the costume is the tie top and brown tummy cover for an extra $50.

i accept payment thru paypal.... please post with intent and then email me shay at shaynaz dot com

pix in tribe photos

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Workshop advice

alecia — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 17:33:32 GMT

So now that I've decided that I'm going to Tribal Con in February (a big deal for me, I live in New York, get lost easily and have never flown alone) I'm getting nervous. I bought the tickets so I can't back out which is probably a good thing so now I have to do it. I've never been to anything larger than a local workshop. I'm not worried about not being able to complete the workshops as far as skill (I'm twenty and I've been belly dancing since I was fourteen) I'm just afraid my head will get in the way. A few of the women I dance with now are larger and it makes me feel better to not look like the hippo dancing with the crocodile. I'm somewhat shy and I don't really 'put myself out there' to meat new people. I have this constant voice in my head telling me that they all think I'm a 'fake belly dancer' because I'm not tiny, muscular and compact and that I shouldn't have wasted my time coming. Logically I know that few if any people are really thinking that, but logic has never stopped my mental tirades before.

Oh and there is that fact that there is a very good chance I'll get lost in Atlanta... and I am soooooo not a city person.

Does anyone have any advice for me? Has anyone been to Tribal Con? Is there usually a mix in body types? Any ideas for getting over myself?

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Sharing some exciting news!

heatherd — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 00:44:50 GMT

Hey Everyone! I just wanted to share some amazing news with who else? but my fellow BBB. I was just asked by one of the most prominent BD in the Cleveland area to perform a SOLO!! at her annual workshop and show! I am soo excited. She saw me perform at our last show and called my teacher to extend the invite to me! I am so excited, it is an annual workshop and show that anticipated by not only the BD community but the ME community (for the show) as well. Last year she hosted Hadia and this year is Sadie http://www.windandsand.com/events/index.htm. I was really looking forward to the workshop anyway as I have loved Sadie ever since I saw her amazing drum solo on youtube ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obQOJRmsXX0 ) but now I am super stoked! I am out to represent all the BBB. We will conquer them one show at a time-lol.

:) Heather

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Pedralta Introduces Goddess Size Cholis

Donna — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 10:00:13 GMT

Don't want to spam in the topics section but I know quite a few dancers on this tribe were on the look out for large size tops. See listings or
www.pedralta.com/shop/tops/007-006.htm

New fabrics, lace and mesh arriving all the time. I'm sorry there are no larger dancers in the pictures yet. I'm waiting for my lovely model next week. Hope you like them I've been working very hard on these :)

Worldwide shipping included in prices.

Donna

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Lap Band and Bellyrolls

bellydancingamara — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 02:31:20 GMT

I am considering having the lap band surgery. Does anyone know if the port is visible or causes problems when you bellyroll...I have this aweful picture in my head of it poking out or "popping" as I roll my stomach.

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Shawl-coverup

Marta — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 05:09:39 GMT

Does amyone want this one? $40 plus shipping
I've only done one of these....checking to see if there is an interest. Quite expensive to make, (cost to you would be $40 plus shipping) but oh, they are fun. I'd wear mine to work....and they are great as a cover up instead of a veil. I can dye more in different colors...
http://people.tribe.net/c610dbe1-a887-403a-b88a-626e195d24fb/photos/b2d9a4df-6979-4970-b198-ad207dbfedd0

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New look for "Belly Dancing for Full Figured Women" web site!

ShiraDotNet — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 06:01:30 GMT

Some of you may be familiar with a niche web site I launched in 2001 called Belly Dancing for Full-Figured Women on angelfire. I'm happy to report that I have dusted it off, moved it to a new home free of those hideous angelfire ads, given it a complete makeover, added some new articles, updated all the links on the links page, and more.

Its new name is Bellydance Plus! and you can find it here: www.bellydanceplus.com

One of the new things I added was a photo gallery featuring another member of this tribe: Melodi! Check it out!

I also added an inspirational article by Jodi Blubaugh titled "A Body Beautiful"

If you have a web site, I hope you'll consider linking to it. Right now, it's invisible on google.

I have more material in mind for it - plans to add three more dancers to the photo gallery, more articles, etc. So many ideas, so little time!

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What drew you to veil dancing?

Marta — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 19:01:03 GMT

I'd love to hear your stories! Please post here
http://tribes.tribe.net/silkveils-madreluna/thread/841699c6-d711-4d3a-ad36-6364747080ab
BTW, I'm running a contest....check my blog for more info

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ISO stretch velvet trumpet skirt

Stephanie — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 17:46:26 GMT

Reasonably priced and street size 24. I'm 5'8", and am able to do alterations.

THANK YOU!!!

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article

Tue, 28 Oct 2008 03:04:17 GMT

This is an article that I wrote during the summer to soothe my soul. It is honest look back at the journey I have taken...I hope you enjoy it.
http://gildedserpent.com/art45/melodi1dancer.htm

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Hey ladies looking for my local bb sisters for this weekend see below

parveneh — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 20:26:24 GMT

produce and host a cable show featuring dance, musicians, etc. etc. I have a slot open this weekend are there any of my bb sisters local to the la area who would like to perform and interview with me. I have segments of the shows on youtube. www.youtube.com/parveneh if you would like to see some of the past performances. If you have a clip also I would love to see it. get back with me.

thx
xoxo
Parveneh

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tribal and gothic belly dance rummage sale Oct.25th&26th in Michigan

Shetan — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 03:50:32 GMT

TRIBAL and GOTHIC costume SALE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Come and stock up! Harem pants, skirts, tribal belts, gothic belts, coin hip scarfs, Tribal Kuchi pendants, bindis, Turkish vest, Costume making books and much more.Gift Certifcates for Classes. Great prices and beautiful fall colors. Lots of Plus sized costumes.

Oct.25th & 26th 2008
Noon- 5pm
Located at Practikal Magick
23833 John R. road (just passed Woodward Heights Rd.)
Hazel Park,Mi
1-810-333-2015

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BB cabaret costumes (x-post)

heatherd — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 14:52:37 GMT

Bellydancestore.biz has some cabaret costumes for sale-bedlah, dresses, bra and skirts. Not just a large cup size and small ity-bitty hip size either! I did a search just for "d" cup and it brought up some great costumes I saw all the way up to size f cups and 50+inches in the hips. Some a labeled "plus size" so if you search those words it should bring them up too. Just thought I would share. I know it is hard to find good cabaret costumes to fit!

:) Heather

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Figure Magazine-BB Belly dancer in the news!

Indivara — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 17:11:29 GMT

Does anyone here get Figure Magazine? This issue (October) has a really nice article about a BB Belly Dancer. The article is a little short, but nicely done. I think you can find Figure at Lane Bryant or online.
Happy reading!

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Oh where or where are all of the BBBDs?

Sanura — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 15:26:14 GMT

It's been quiet on here lately. What is everyone up to? I am attending a workshop with Karim Nagi and Nourhan Shariff this weekend in Charlotte, NC and getting ready to perform at the Carolina Renaissance Faire season coming up October through November.

Work is crazy! But I'm loving it. Keeps the days going fast so I can get to either dance class or sewing costumes quicker.

The weather is starting to get cooler, which I hope stays that way for Faire. I'm ready for Fall!

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win a free veil! - In desperate need of Inspiration

Marta — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 14:23:45 GMT

Ok folks, help me out....I'm in a rut and need some help. I haven't dyed silk in a good long time and I need a shot of inspiration! I love so much to see how people are using my veils. They can leave here pretty, but in the hands of the dancers I have made them for, they become so much more! So, to entice people to post, I am running another "geisha moth" type contest.....here are the rules and prizes.
I would love to see video and or pics of you dancing with one of my veils...so I guess this is open to anyone owning one of my pieces.
1) Post a video to the internet, and then post a link to my tribe.... tribes.tribe.net/silkveils-madreluna
or
2) Post a photo of yourself dancing with one of my veils to the same tribe.
Winners will get to choose their colors, and I will dye them a custom silk veil
Winners will be chosen from the last 3 numbers in the pic or video file submitted on the internet. The closest number to a pre set chosen number will win! Who is in?!
Contest closes the last day of September

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Raqs Sharqi and Jennifer Holiday fusion

Phenomenal_Me — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 16:39:09 GMT

Hey all!

I recently did a solo to my favorite fat chick anthem "And I'm Telling You" by Jennifer Holiday. It's a bit shaky in parts since it was filmed by my Beloved but I hope you ladies like it :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzozf4oldX0

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Assuit dress for sale, yarn belt for sale

Christiane — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 03:11:57 GMT

Please see my profile photos for details. It's of that wonderfully stretchy assuit that fits me (a size 16) and those smaller.

I also have a tribal yarn belt for sale.

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Plus-size cabaret costume for sale!

Christiane — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 20:41:12 GMT

Halter top and belt set in blue and gold, for $60, check out the photo in my profile!

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Plus sizes for sale!!!! (and yarn hair falls!)

Xira_Ali — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 04:19:06 GMT

i'm cleaning out my closet if anyone is in need of some plus size belly dance gear! feel free to check my blog for links to pics and info :)

http://people.tribe.net/xira

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Belly dance costume making book and costume making kits

Shetan — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 03:29:55 GMT

This is a complete book showing step-by step instructions on how to make costumes. If you have ever seen one of my costumes and wanted it, Well here is the book that tells you how to make them.

Hot Glue + Sequins = Professional Belly dance costumes
By Tracy "Shetan Noir" Herrell
over 30 page with detailed color pictures.

************************************************
Now Available also at Lynch's and by mail
Belly dance Costume making kits,
each kit contains 30 precut felt shapes
choose from Heart, teardrop,circle, star, half circle

save yourself time and effort by buying these kits.
only $6.00 each
********************************************************
Books are available for purchase here in Michigan at:
Lynch's Costumes
26752 Dequindre
Warren,Mi
1-586-751-1780
$10.00 IN STORE / $10.00 PLUS SHIPPING AND HANDLING FOR MAILED ORDERS.
Costume Making kits are $6.00 each in store / 6.00 each plus shipping and handling for mailed orders

For out of state Orders email me directly at shetannoir@yahoo.com and put costume book in the subject line.

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Workshop Wear

Whitney — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 19:20:46 GMT

So I get to go to ShimmyFest (www.shimmyfest.com) Whooppee!!! It will be my first ever workshop, and I'm so excited. But then the question comes up---What to wear, what to wear? What is the norm for this type of workshop? Normal practice gear-hipscarf, tanktop, etc, or something special?

Thanks!

Whitney

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New goddess sized belly dance wear site!

Stephanie — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 23:45:15 GMT

On one of my other message boards, a girl just opened up a new site for ladies like us. I just got my order yesterday, and I LOVE it, so I had to share! I will try to post pictures when I have some extra time. Anyway, I just wanted to spread the word. Everything fits me great, and the pants are long enough that they don't highwater! I'm about 5'8" and a street size 22/24. Her website is www.shimmysista.com.

Happy shopping!

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Fun Favor Flagging Photos

fayme — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 20:25:22 GMT

I would like everyone who reads this board regularly to do me a tiny and fun favor. Look at the tribe photos and select at least one and flag it as 'best of tribe' using the little button near the opened photo. Give some love to those that take the time to share their photos and the photos of other dancers they admire. It will only take a few minutes of your day. Thanks.

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It's been a little quiet here.....what is everyone up to?

Sanura — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 14:42:40 GMT

How is everyone's summer? What is everyone doing? Any fun and exciting dance activities?

Yasmine, my teacher, Debbie and I are going to Ya Halla Ya All in Texas next month! Debbie and I are dancing a duet together. Look for Bashira Bellydance if you are attending.

I have been celebrating my 50th birthday (month long celebration in July)!

Our troupe, Beledi Beat will be performing at Pride Charlotte this weekend along with Yasmine's Student Recital on Sunday. And we are getting ready for the Carolina Renaissance Faire coming up in October!

Between dancing, and traveling all over the place on weekends with hubby, this summer has been very busy but fun! Hope everyone else is having a great summer! I must admit, I ready for cooler weather!

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Beautiful Dancer Pants

Kathleen — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 15:09:13 GMT

I have seen many questions on this tribe on Plus size pants and I thought I'd give some input on my experience.

I have found some beautiful pants at ShimmySista.com that fit great and are top notch quality at a great price. They have a great selection so you don't have to settle for the plain old stretch pants anymore.
Glenna of Shimmy Sista is awesome and oh so helpful.

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Goddess Fest Website!!!!

Jlynn — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 02:37:52 GMT

Its not fully done but most info is posted.
http://www.goddessfestretreat.com/

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Update: Lovetoknow.com

Debra — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:23:02 GMT

Plus size belly dance costuming has been moved from Plus Size Lingerie to Plus Size Living. Also at the bottom of the article is an apology from one of the contributing authors.

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Goddess Fest date vote!!!

Jlynn — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 14:28:33 GMT

This is a vote for the new dates for Goddess fest.
I can have in during a four day week that means Sun-Thurs, or weekend friday-mon. Either way it has to be four days.
Weekends means higher prices for you and weekdays mean reasonable prices. I'll leave this open for you.
I'm also leaving the season open. Summer, Fall, Winter, or spring.

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Wow, that's me!

Marta — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:38:47 GMT

Up in he left corner....cool

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Bellydance costumes as lingerie???

Anyanka — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 14:36:54 GMT

http://plussize.lovetoknow.com/Plus_Size_Belly_Dance_Costumes

Saw this posted in the Everyday Bellydancer tribe. The bellydance community needs to sound out about this. So drop them a comment on their webpage.

Happy Blasting!!

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Awesome drum solo video to share

beledigrrl — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 05:29:38 GMT

Hi, I found this video of Majida Anwar on YouTube the other day and thought it would be fun to share: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FreWEVdCPto.

Majida is a performer and instructor located in Atlanta. For folks familiar with the SCA, she teaches and performs at Pennsic War as well. Enjoy!

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A skirt that will fit anyone

fayme — Sat, 28 Jun 2008 07:08:14 GMT

I just wrote a tutorial on making a 2 panel skirt. http://hubpages.com/hub/Tutorial-Super-Simple-Belly-Dance-Skirt-Fits-Any-Size I'll eventually make examples of each of the variations. The skirt in the photo is going to be a costume with a mermaid theme and the hipband will be freeform crochet with seashells and beads embedded in it.

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New Big Beautiful Belly Dancer Website!

uberwench — Sun, 19 Aug 2007 18:44:35 GMT

Hello beautiful ladies! I just put up a website for myself a couple of weeks ago, and it's already doing really well! I'm a teacher and performer, and it's already gotten me a gig. Check it out!

http://uberwench.googlepages.com/home

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Buy Eye Kandy...Help Goddess Fest

Jlynn — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 06:32:09 GMT

Amara decided, if any Goddesses or their friends buy anything from her, she will donate 5% of the purchase price towards the first festival. All you have to do is join my tribe, or pm her and make your purchase, and say "Go Big Or Go Home!"

Remember- just go to the website, choose what you want, then pm Amara here in tribe, and say the magick words...and Voila! Help me get the First ever Festival off the ground....
http://people.tribe.net/amaraomshazadi
http://www.kandyeyeddancer.com/

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Goddess Fest Tribe....

Jlynn — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 21:37:06 GMT

Find out all info on the creation of the event on.... http://tribes.tribe.net/goddessfestival

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Any ideas on large sized sandals, ghillies etc?

Padriya — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 04:49:01 GMT

After burning the soles of my feet today on hot concrete during a performance, I've decided I need some sandals or ghillies or something. I would prefer some pretty sandals but I've plus sized tootsies in addition to the rest of me. :) Size 13 since they spread my recent pregnancy.. I haven't found anything over an 11 and most seem to end at a 10. Anyone else have this problem and found something?

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where to find patterns/choosing fabric

Kamala Devi — Sat, 17 May 2008 01:08:00 GMT

Where can I find a size 20-22 ghawazee coat pattern, and what kinds of fabrics (including appropriate designs) are usually used? I can sew fairly well enough myself, so I am not looking to buy pre-made. All I am looking for are patterns and fabrics so I can make one on my own. Thanks for your help!

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Fat Momma is Coming Around Full Circle

cynthia — Wed, 23 Apr 2008 22:40:49 GMT

I don't know if you remember me discussing my son in law in January calling me fat behind his back in Jan. I believe that everything comes full circle and now the circle is hitting my son in law Mike in the butt! His daughter is getting married and told my daughter she wanted me to do her wedding flowers. I use to own a flower shop but sold it in May of 2004 for I was so sick with cancer etc.. and I am jumping with joy because I told Antoinette (daughter) that I was not doing her flowers for some one who hates me, and that they needed to find a skinny florist, that doesn't have piercings or tattoos and a florist who is not a belly dancer!

God should strike me dead for gleefully jumping with great joy for I haven't spoken to Mike since January. Told Antoinette I did not like the way he has treated me nor my granddaughters!

Just wanted to let you know that fat belly dancer's grand momma can be spiteful and ugly too! This will cost him thousands of dollars for I expected they didn't think I would charge for my labor and just the costs of the flowers.

Aren't I ugly? I haven't lost any weight either!

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Big Beautiful Tribal Bellydancers Meet-Up.......

Jlynn — Thu, 08 May 2008 15:47:31 GMT

Its a work in progress. I'm working on the first BBTBD Meet-Up that will hopefully happen next year. I'm a little skinny (skinny lol) on details as of yet as to where it will be but it will happen. This is open for discussion as to what people would like to have in this meet. We will have workshops with some of our big beautiful bellydancer, performances, vending( is very possible still working on that) and a last night banquet send off with free dance.
If you have any request I would love to hear them and i will see what i can do.
Is this something we are ready for? Who would love to join us in a few days of fun and sisterhood. (Men big beautiful bellydancers welcome too.)
P.S. If your willing to teach a workshop let me know. I'm trying to get diffrent workshops togeather in my book.
Thank you,
J.

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top 10 dvd? xpost

angie — Tue, 13 May 2008 17:09:16 GMT

What are your top 10 fav DVD's for beginners, intermediate and advanced?

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Cabaret DIY

Whitney — Sat, 03 May 2008 02:28:44 GMT

I've just started a new tribe for Cabaret style costuming DIY.

www.tribes.tribe.net/cabaretDIY

Please join! There's not much there now but it can be a great group if we work together!

Thanks,
Whitney

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plus sized bellydance type stuff and clothes FS

Cherie — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 19:22:50 GMT

In my flickr account w/ descriptions below:
www.flickr.com/photos/cheriezel/

Various tops and practice skirts, few hip scarves and a bunch of nice plus sized items! Pay Pal preferred - PM me with your wants!

ALSO in my profile photo's is a gorgeous 2X beaded/sequined caberet/evening dress in black w/ irredesent accents - now marked down to $150!

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One of my newest vids

Darkdove — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 03:04:18 GMT

keep in mind it's Gothic and a snake dance in the new costume I made this year.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R6viMCGOVpQ

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ack need help with 8's!

angie — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 04:49:20 GMT

I just started a few months ago, I'm 5'7 and 210lbs btw and I'm learning to bellydance not only to loose weight and get into better shape but because I think it'd incredibly sexy.. The only problem I seem to be having is with mayas, I have big hips... and I mean big... and I'm not sure why but it just doesn't look right when I try to do them, I'm not sure if it's just me, either, but any help would be appreciated.. specially tips on how to maya if you have huge hips like me hehe

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how to look beatiful even when toooo big

Tempest — Fri, 29 Feb 2008 00:52:36 GMT

Hi I want to look really beautiful when dancing like all of my dance sisters.
but I end up feeling like a beach ball and am so worried that I am making a full out of myself
I do dance with two troupes and the one in my photo are really lovely and are very supported.
But the other troupe? I am the biggest and couple of girls aren't all that nice. I know I shouldn't worry but!.
any hints on costumes ?
I made a 10yrd skirt with three tiers but didn't look right I think I need more tiers?
I am big in the belly so skirts rise up in the front. I have been losing weight mainly my chest .
losing weight for me isn't easy as I'm on medication for an illness I have.
I love to dance, now I want to look good as I feel .
Any help thanks
Tempest

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Feedback please

Donna — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 11:32:21 GMT

Just to let you know that I've managed to get some photos of the new goddess choli and tie front choli, modelled by the lovely Rozie. Please see listings.

I would recommend feedback and some thoughts on new stock colours. I am stocking black, gold and wine in the tie front style but there are 18 colours available altogether. Does anyone prefer pastels?

Donna

www.pedralta.com

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Comfort

Kamaria — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 01:34:02 GMT

So I've got a new significant other. He's the first person I've been intimate with and I can feel completely comfortable with him in my birthday suit, but the idea of dancing in front of him terrifies me.

How did you all get over this?

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A BBBD Show coming to Philly: BigMoves presents THE BIG TOP

Meggey — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 14:49:05 GMT

I am sorry if this is the wrong section, but I thought some people might be interested in this show and the company. They are amazing. The are all Big and Beautiful girls like us!

BigMoves presents THE BIG TOP at The Rotunda is located at 4014 Walnut St., Philadelphia, PA 19104

This is BigMoves at its carnivalesque best, with jazz dance, bellydance, musical theater, lyrical, bhangra-infused hip hop.. all on one glittering stage!

**2 shows! 1 date only!*

Sat. April 26

2pm (doors 1:30pm)

AND

8pm (doors 7:30pm)

$12 in advance
$15 day of show
($5 for ages 12 and under)

Tickets on sale at BigMoves.org

I am the local dancer that is doing one of the side shows!!! So come out and see it!

We’ve also added clowning, aerial dance, feats of strength and dexterity, live musical variety acts, and a sideshow the likes of which have never been seen anywhere. All of this is framed by a touching pantomime of two young lovers whose lives are torn asunder by the winds of fate and the whirl of the circus.

*** Hey, parents! The BIG TOP is a family-friendly show, so we're offering special rate for kids at every show on our tour. Bring your whole family and let them see a vision of size acceptance that is revolutionary and fun.

BigMoves is dedicated to creating high-quality, multi-genre dance
productions featuring performers of all sizes. Because performance
dance in the Western tradition has historically been restricted to thin bodies, BigMoves is particularly focused on providing training and performance opportunities for dancers who are larger than dance world norms. Our outreach and education programs promote self-acceptance and self-love for all dancers, of any size and all skill levels, as they work toward growing and fine-tuning their range of abilities, technique, and expression through movement. We are a community of pioneers, banded together to support each other in expanding and exploring the boundaries of the dancer’s body. Ultimately, these explorations are directed at nothing less than a paradigm shift, toward a society in which size diversity is celebrated, not feared.

BigMoves was founded in 2000 by Marina Wolf Ahmad, a plus-size dancer who wanted to create community, training opportunities, and
performances for herself and other dancers who otherwise were left out of the dance mainstream. The organization began operations in the San Francisco Bay Area, and expanded to Boston in January 2005, and to New York in May of 2006. These three areas have their own branches of Big Moves, and Boston additionally is the home base for a touring company that reaches to Montréal, Philadelphia, Washington DC, as well as other locations along the East Coast.

BigMoves is award-winning. Internationally award-winning. Our revival
of Gargantua got rave reviews from audiences and thumbs-up from the critics, and we brought back the prestigious Spirit of the Fringe award from the Montréal Fringe Festival in June. Naturally, this sort of honor just makes us leap higher at the brass ring of greatness, which means that our fans and sponsors can be sure they are supporting some of the best and most groundbreaking performances in the field of size-accepting dance and theater.

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Post baby belly

Indivara — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 17:56:59 GMT

I have always been a large-framed woman....broad shoulders...proud of my curvy hips and how it all looks when I dance. After the birth of my daughter, I seem to have "loose skin" on my midsection. Can anyone suggest light exersize or costuming choices to minimize the appearance of the loose skin?

Thanks!

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on video

Debra — Sun, 06 Apr 2008 13:44:03 GMT

My hubs got a small portion of my performance this past Saturday on video.
http://myspacetv.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=31815429
Check it out if you want to.

D

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Love yourself! Help spread the word!

Carrie — Mon, 07 Apr 2008 23:28:02 GMT

Tired of anorexic models getting all the publicity? Are you fed up with plastic surgeons and diet pill ads that make you feel like it's a crime to be different?
You are not alone!
Visit this new space, http://www.myspace.com/nodietingday, and add them to help support International No Dieting Day, an event organized by my sister on UCLA campus in Los Angeles. This event has been created to help people learn how to love their body just the way it is and learn about healthy lifestyle choices. If you already feel comfortable in your skin, great, but this could be the opportunity to help someone who's about to make decisions that will affect them for the rest of their life.

Thanks for you help!

Peace and Love
Carrie

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Serpentessa Snake Dancing Workshop

serpentessa — Mon, 07 Apr 2008 18:53:10 GMT

Would you enjoy a sensual dance journey with a powerful yet gentle Serpent into the mystery of your Being? Learn with Serpentessa to merge body, mind and soul with a snake in a graceful interspecies dance.

Date & Time: Sunday, April 27, 2008 from 9:00 am- 12 noon

Location: Hudson Valley Academy of Performing Arts
957 Route 82, West Taghkanic. NY.
For directions> www.hvapa.com

**For those attending workshop, Dance at the Hafla Party with my Snakesss! Hafla Party begins @ 1 pm.

Wkshp format:
1. Snake handling orientation provided. No prior snake knowledge necessary.
2. Learn the basic positions to hold a snake that are safe and sensual.
3. Belly dancing framework. Choreography within the improvised phrase captivates your audience.
5. For Sisters of all ages, shapes and diversities.

Cost: $35 includes afternoon party. Limited enrollment & Pre-registration closes 4/24.

To register: 518-851-5501. Registration confirmation via email. Further questions, pls check website or email serpentessa@templebellydance.com

www.TempleBellyDance.com

See Events here for photos.

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Gaucho pants that actually fit me... YAY!

Stephanie — Sat, 05 Apr 2008 14:24:34 GMT

I am SO excited, and I just had to come and share my find!

I recently purchased a pair of 2x/3x Gaucho Dance Pants from Moondancebellydance.com, and they fit me!

I am a size 22-24, and 5'8", and they managed to go all the way around with still a little extra in the waist line, and they are long enough that they touch the floor!

For $30, not a bad deal at all!

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Beautiful Rubenesque Dancer - Maria Aya

Sanura — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 18:17:47 GMT

I came across a beautiful dancer on Youtube, Maria Aya. She has a few videos on YT.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Unz-68C0bAM

She is a curvaceous and beautiful dancer!

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YAY!!! I am so glad someone told me about this group. I was getting worried that I was the only Big Beautiful Bellydancer on Tribe.

VividGypsy — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 17:08:39 GMT

YAY!!! I am so glad someone told me about this group. I was getting worried that I was the only Big Beautiful Bellydancer on Tribe. LOL
I am new to bellydancing. Only been going to classes for 2 months and love it. But I get so self-conscious when I go to class because most of the ladies are so skinny with gorgeous bodies. It doesn't help when I am dancing in front of a HUGE mirror that is not very friendly or flattering to my figure. LOL Anyway... I found that since I am not used to showing my tummy at all that I was allowing it to distract me from class. I was too busy worrying about people staring at me and me having to keep pulling my shirt down so my stomach wouldn't show. Lots of people have said to me that bellydancing originated with big women like myself and that bellydance is very embracing of tummies and full figured women. BUT I couldn't help but notice that now a days MOST of the bellydancers are skinny and have perfect tummies. LOL. OH WELL. sorry for going on and on. I just wanted to thank you for creating this group. I feel like I fit in here. I also joined the other BBB group for Tribal!

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Baby Blue "Shayna Original" Plus size

shaynaz — Wed, 25 Apr 2007 22:05:06 GMT

I am selling my baby blue! i made it for my performance when i was pregnant. Ive gotten photos of me in it with and without baby! And i knew that id be selling it afterwards. But i guess lets just see if anyone is interested!!! cuz its loaded!!! here are the specs... it has 90 large sew on swarovski rhinestone crystals, 12 yards 29" of swarovski rhinestone on chain which i pretty much figured out its 2305 swarovski chrystals!!! covered with baby blue seed beads, and some sequins. it has bugle beaded fringe in 3 shades of blue as well as silver "V" shaped fringe in front and back. i made this costume with love! it also was nice, calming and relaxing when i was adding the beads onto it. I used upolsery thread to put on the beads so nothings coming off here!

bra is D/DD i used a lane bryant 44D cuped bra. right now hooks are set at 40 but it can be expandable to 45". The bra also has the straps that "X" in the back. the straps are set at 22" but i know i made those larger so those can be extended out as well. the straps also hook in the front for easy closure. They are also reinforced with velcro. The top of the straps also have the softer velcro because i velcroed my isis wings to my bra because i hate anything tight on my neck. ISIS WINGS ARE NOT INCLUDED

the belt is set right now at 46" but can be expandable to 54" the hooks are also reinforced with velcro. its in a "V" shape.

this set also comes with a head band and beledi style dress made from glitter slinky baby blue fabric. Unstretched it measures at 46 waist and 50" at the hips. the length from the top to the floor is 54". it has a U neck line so it goes under the bra. it also comes with a matching head piece.

so this set includes bra, belt, headpiece and dress. im asking $950 plus shipping. Shipping costs will be up to the buyer on how you want me to ship but it will need to be a trackable method as well as insurance. you can email me at shay at shaynaz dot com any questions let me know!

you can see it in action here... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyEpZ5QLTyk

photos
http://s122.photobucket.com/albums/o262/shaynazz/baby%20blue%20costume/

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~NEW EBAY STORE!!!~

wendy — Wed, 05 Dec 2007 19:09:19 GMT

~Greetings!:) ~I am Celebrating a Grand Opening of my New EBAY Store!!!!~I am So Excited!~I have lots&Lots of Gorgeous Goodies!!!~I carry ALL Colors in the Full&Fluffy~25 Yard TRIBAL Bellydance Skirts!!!&Banghara Tribal Skirts~Indian Tribal Cholis(Tribal Sisha&Velvets!)~&many other GODDESS Sizes!!!!~Also the Beautiful HOLIDAY Peacock Beaded Coats! (also Ponchos&Tops!)~check out the Big SALE!!~at www.stores.ebay.com/wendybalisle ~Thank You&Happy Holidays!!!~WendyO:)

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Floor work for voluptuous ladies

Lauralana — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 14:21:27 GMT

I've never been comfortable doing floor work because of my size. I can get down okay, just can't get up gracefully.

I would like to incorporate a little floorwork and maybe work my way up to doing some more complicated stuff but I'm just not in good enough shape yet.

I was wondering if you guys might be able to give me some tips on getting myself in condition for floorwork. Any thigh stretches, exercises or drills that might be helpful, or floor work moves that work for you.

I apologize if this has been covered in another topic.

Any help would be much appreciated. :)

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buyer beware: isis exchange

Halimah_bint_Isadore — Wed, 12 Mar 2008 16:56:24 GMT

Buyer Beware: ISIS EXCHANGE

“How to make Egyptian dressmakers starve by ordering & returning a belly dance costume”

Great place to order from, if you don’t inquire as to when your costume will be delivered, or need to make an exchange. Or expect them to do much to follow through... Yup.. that’s “good customer service”

http://www.isisexchange.com/

Isis Exchange’s BBB Report: http://www.bbbsoutheastflorida.org/BBBWeb/Forms/Business/CompanyReportPage_Expository.aspx?CompanyID=11008931

----------Back Story------------------------------------------------

My troupe pitched in to buy me a nice, professional styled costume as a way to thank me for all of the work I put into getting our troupe up and running.

Being a non-standard portioned person (minimal chest, broad hips, plus a jiggly mid section), I knew that I would need to order a custom costume to have a matching bra & belt. I found a beautiful and unique costume at Isis Exchange and I was sooo happy to have discovered a company that not only offered a unique custom made costume, but a reasonable price. Without much hesitation, I ordered from them in early December ‘07.

In Jan ‘08, I received my costume- only to discover, that indeed the costume was beautiful, but by no means made to my exact measurements (as promised by Isis Exchange). The single piece gown’s torso was incredibly long– if the thigh slit sat where it was supposed to, then the hard cupped breast forms came to just under my chin! If I put the boobs where they are meant to go, the thigh slit was just above my knee. This was not a costume I could dance in! Not to mention that the zipper popped, and there were several highly visible white tailor paint markings across the bodice (that I could not easily remove). Sadly, I had to return this gown and exchange it for something more safe (ie not incur the length problem) and that could be produced in a shorter time frame for my March show. Because all exchanges are not offered a refund, but a 75% credit to be used at the store, I was stuck re-ordering another costume.

I spoke with Mou, the production manager, and he was very friendly and seemed to understand my dilemma. He helped me select another costume, and I was feeling pretty good about the whole thing, tho’ more than a little nervous about the time frame. He told me that my order would be submitted right away.

Through out the rest of Jan, I had not received a invoice or purchase order, so I emailed the company, and I received an invoice on Feb 12, 2008. I have honestly come to believe that my order was not even submitted until I contacted the company!!! Anyway this invoice had an expected date of March 5. Sweet! 10 days before my performance! I was very excited.

----------Here’s where it gets more dramatic-------------

March 10— No costume. I called the company, and managed to speak with Billy. I explained my concerns to him. I was informed that my costume would arrive early next week (two days too late for my performance), I asked if was joking, and said that this is unacceptable. He told me he would look into and call me back by the end of the day.

March 11- Getting more worried, I called Isis Exchange. No answer. I left a message. I called back an hour later, this I time I spoke with a woman who assured me that she would look into the matter.

No response 2 hours later, I called again, and spoke with Billy yet again. He wanted to know what was wrong with the original costume. I explained the fit problem, and I was informed that Isis Exchange employs a dressmaker who is 55 years old, near retirement, and that at least 8-10 costumes recently have been returned to fit problems!! I was shocked! Wow! 8-10 people have been through what I am going through? Have they gotten an apology, unlike myself? Billy again assured me that he would call me back, after he spoke with his production manager. I asked when I could expect to hear back from him, he did not provide an answer, so I informed him that I wanted to hear back from him within 15-30 minutes.

The afternoon passed, and I had no contact from them. So I called again (If you ever need to call Isis Exchange, expect to not have the phone answered at any time in your ordering experience until you call them at least 10 times– seriously). During this time, I left two messages- one apologizing for my earlier shortness and I provided two solutions for Isis Exchange... the first being that my costume is overnighted from Egypt to me, at no additional shipping charge, the second the costume arrives late with a refund. My second message was a request to get the promised call back.

Finally my phone rings, and it’s Billy– he begins by saying “you called me 20 times- I had to step out of the office. Our internet is down. I’m working off a laptop, I have to go outside to find a wireless internet connection.” I offered to forward all of the emails I had from Isis Exchage so he could access my records. I was now informed that my costume was still in production, that there was no way I could have in time for my show. I was also told that my costume should have fit, as the hips stretch to 54" (and that folks is why the zipper popped!). I am embarrassed to say, but I not so kindly expressed my disappointment. Our phone conversation ends with him saying that he will contact his production manager (Mou) and that only Mou has the authority to issue refunds.

Three hours later- I hear from Mou. Mou wanted to know what was wrong my original costume. I explained to him the details. He then asked what I wanted from them. I repeated my two options for them. I was told, and I had to repeat this back to him twice out of disbelief- he offered to send me my original ill-fitting costume, or to send my the second costume as soon as it came (early next week). There was no way my costume would be shipped any sooner. Again, I explained my disappointment to him. I was then asked again what I wanted, “I said an apology would go along way right now.” He then shouted at me, and said that I was being a very difficult customer– “that there was no way of pleasing me, that he had already lost a significant amount of money a costume that was perfectly fine and fit me, that he had no desire to do business with me, and that people in Egypt were starving” (no I am not kidding here) because of my returning a costume. I was informed by Mou that “handmade items are not perfect, and that there are always errors....that an exact fit is not possible” Well, of course, I became the difficult customer he made me to be. Unfortunately, we shouted back and forth at each other. Finally, he offered to cancel my order and give me 75% refund less his shipping expenses (of what I am not exactly sure...the costume? A check in the mail?). I was pushing for a full refund and an apology– which wasn’t happening. I finally kowtowed, and had to shout this over his continuing litany of “difficult customer, starving Egyptians, I don’t want to do business with you” to be heard. I agreed to accept the second costume late, but as long as he understood how disappointed I am with Isis Exchange and that I would try to warn as many dancers as possible from using his company.

So– yes I must admit at times in dealing with Isis Exchange over the past two days I have acted like a tantrum two year old. I am not proud of my behavior, but sadly it took so much action on my behalf to find out the status of my order, and to come with up solutions to this debacle. I did not want to rip off Isis Exchange, but I did want what was promised to me when it was promised to me. The costume is due to arrive a few days post performance :-( I am hoping that will be a good fit, or at least can be altered on my end to achieve that sought after fit.

I realize not everyone has had a bad experience with this company. I read in an earlier posting, that someone had a friend who had a terrible experience with Isis Exchange, but with no explanation why. I decided to share my dealings with them to help provide better information, and to prevent someone living through this same ordeal. Hopefully this costume will provide me with enough dancing bliss to be able to overcome this crudy experience.

If you choose to order through Isis Exchange, may you have a wonderful experience and be treated well.

Please contact me if you have any questions-
Halimah bint Isadore

-----Isis Exchange’s Verbage-----------------------------

According to their website:

Off the listing of the Original Costume I ordered: (CST005)
“If you are not in rush, you can order this costume at your exact measurements.”

Return Policy:

“If you received your package in a bad condition or simply you do not like the item within 3 days of receiving it, you can ship it back for a full refund or an immediate exchange for no additional S&H costs. No questions asked!

Any special orders can not be returned for a full refund. However, they can be returned for 75% of the purchase price as a Store Credit only and it must be returned within 3 days of receipt.”

As for the starving Egyptians:
(again from their website, under “about us”)

“We are firm advocate against child labor & "Sweat Shops". We personally see to it that our employees are fairly compensated for their hard work, have good working conditions and fair pay.”

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Why did you choose to be a bellydancer?

Sanura — Tue, 04 Mar 2008 16:02:57 GMT

As a BBBD, what made you decide to become a bellydancer? I hear so many times about BBBDs who have struggled with being a bellydancer, whether their self image or outside influences are the causes of these struggles. But something drew you to this art form, so what was it for you that made you decide to pursue this.

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opinions or guidance

Dawn — Thu, 29 Nov 2007 18:33:51 GMT

Hello lovely ladies....
I would really like everyones thoughts, opinions or guidance when selecting a costume. Next March is our troupes first big event. We are excited and well sort of nervous. One of our members is doing a solo, and wanted to purchase a fancier cabaret costume. She is very unsure of fitting into one. This is the one she has fallen in love with. outfit.http://isisexchange.com/gorgeous-belly-dance-costume-evening-gown-p-425.html
Her build is a wider hips base, giggly middle, and no chest (42 A). Isis Exchange makes them to your size which is great. But when ya spend that kind of money, you really want to make sure it's flattering on you. So I'd love to gather advice to share with my dance sister. She is a great dancer and her solo piece will be even more spectacular in a glitzy outfit.http://isisexchange.com/gorgeous-belly-dance-costume-evening-gown-p-425.html

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X-POST: Big Beautiful Belly Dancer 2008 Calendar call for photos

Kamala Devi — Wed, 06 Jun 2007 03:21:19 GMT

Greetings all belly dancing beauties!

Last winter, an idea was brought up to create a calendar featuring our big, beautiful, belly-dancer (BBBD) sisters and there was such a huge, positive response that this idea has become a reality!

The creative mindset behind this idea, BBBD Meghan, asked BBBD Kamala Devi to chair this project, and with the help of some very motivated BBBD sisters, we are pleased to announce that we are now accepting applications from other BBBD sisters for the BBBD 2008 Calendar!

Click on the following link for additional information:

http://totallynortherntribal.com/BBBD.Calendar.htm

Please read all the information carefully and follow the instructions. If you have any questions, please send a Tribe PM to Calendar chairperson Kamala Devi.

The deadline for your application is July 31, 2008.

We are all looking forward to this project and are eager to see how the calendar turns out. We hope that this is successful enough to become an annual calendar.

Thanks everyone!

Kamala Devi and the BBBD 2008 Calendar Committee

DISCLAIMER: there is no connection between Totally Northern Tribal (TNT) and the BBBD 2008 Calendar. Calendar chairperson Kamala Devi, a member of TNT, linked off her TNT Member’s Page.

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Larger sized coing belts?

Rachel — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 06:16:37 GMT

I'm taking a belly dance class, and one of the dancers is having trouble finding a coin belt large enough for her. I thought you wonderful people might have some resources for her.

We are in the San Francisco Bay Area, so something local would be fabulous, but online can be made to work.

Thanks!!

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BBW Celebs / Jenny Craig Spokesmodels - do these plans really work?

Altaira — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 22:53:51 GMT

We all know Kirstie Alley and Valerie Bertinelli used Jenny Craig and lost weight successfull and kept it off, but I just saw a TV commercial for Jenny with Queen Latifah and it turns out she is stepping up as Jenny's spokemodel: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,330909,00.html

I have look up to all three of these of these women for their different accomplishments, and applaud them for working to get healthy (versus 'skinny'). And as much as I don't want to follow the crowd, the support of Jenny Craig from these three women holds a lot of 'weight' for me!

I need to loose some weight, about 50 lbs (my doctor recently told me I should not weigh over 200lbs when I told her about some knee pain I have been having) and since I don't cook (or like to cook, that is). Beside dance, I have a pretty sedentary life since I am a computer programmer (in front of a computer at LEAST 8 hours a day) and I have trouble with snacking and portions since my blood sugar goes crazy so I over eat and then feel bad (physically) so I know not only do I need to up my exercise, but I need to get control over my eating and since I don't cook, I end up eating whatever the hubby makes and since he is a large man, he tends to give me portions that are too big (so I need to relearn portion control).

I have been looking at trying either the NutriSystem or Jenny plan but wonder just how hard it is and if they really work. I already have trouble maintaining my blood sugar (I am not diabetic) and wonder if I will be hungry if I try one of these plans (prepackaged food plan that is)

Anyone here try either of these plans? Any feedback??

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Upcoming Photo Shoots In Various Cities

pixievision — Mon, 04 Feb 2008 14:23:54 GMT

My traveling studio is coming from Los Angeles to these cities soon….

February 9th - Fullerton, CA – GOTHLA (a belly dance event) - www.gothla.com
February 17th, 18th & 19th - Minneapolis
February 20th, 21st & 22nd - Austin, Texas
March 14th, 15th & 16th – Chicago
March 18th, 19th, 20th, 21st – Albuquerque, New Mexico
April 4th & 5th - Freehold, NJ
April 7th & 8th - New York City
April 10th, 11th & 12th - Washington, DC
April 26th – Newbury Park, CA - Tribal Caravan (a belly dance event) - www.TribalCaravan.com
September 11th, 12th, 13th – Seattle, WA
September 20th, 21st, 22nd – Detroit, Michigan

I specialize in musicians, fire performance and belly dance photography but I also love to shoot families, all forms of dance, fashion, weddings and all kinds of events.

Examples of belly dance shoots are at this link…
http://tribes.tribe.net/pixievision/thread/f80a19fc-0a62-4648-a448-5c46b25ef0cb

See my website for other examples of my work~ www.PixieVisionProductions.com

My rate for shooting is $250 per hour. Please email pixie@pixievisionproductions.com for more info~ :)

~Pixie

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The perfect hipster/boy short...

thespisis — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 06:51:17 GMT

Okay, so I'm a pear with a HUGE difference between my waist and hips (anywhere from 17-20 inches dependent on weight fluctuations). I have a really big problem with my waistbands and hip wraps migrating towards my waist when I dance. My solution has been to pin or snap (the mega snaps are awesome for this) boy shorts or hipster panties to my waistbands and my hip wraps as well.

My problem is that on panties/shorts big enough to fit my hips comfortably, the legs are too wide, and drawers themselves begin to ride up on the hips (WEDGIE! OW!). If I buy them smaller, they either don't come up even front and back (I have quite an apron) or I end up with the muffin top from hell.

So, here's the deal. I'm looking for the perfect hipster or boy short. It should be generous through the hip but snug (though not chaffing) around the leg openings. It should come up even front and back. And it should come in VERY large sizes (unlike most dance shorts which might go up to 2x if you're lucky). Ideally, it would be a lycra or microfiber boy short that ISN'T a cheeky panty (I want the cheeks FULLY covered) and hits right at the widest part of the hip (about 2 inches below the belly button on me).

So, am I out of my gourd or does such a short exist?

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